Tuesday, November 10, 2009

What Do We Mean by “Masculine” and “Feminine,” Anyway?

What Do We Mean by “Masculine” and “Feminine,” Anyway?

An engaging article... that asks, if just for a while, to loosen our grip on our ideas of Masculine and Feminine...
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Immediately I thought of an earlier piece I wrote, about my first time on Fire Island... I realized that culturally influenced ideas of masculine and feminine were a constant background buzz in my mind... but in that idyllic environment I felt freed from those influences and was, what I understand now as, my desire to be my Authentic Self... even more so, I realize, that I don't need that environment in order to be Authentic–however, I tapped into something else that is also always with me no matter where I go...

http://blog.enlightennext.org/?p=2776

Claiming My Masculinity


Friday, September 11, 2009

Thoughts On Obama's Healthcare Reform Speech


Last evening Obama gave a speech on the need to unite for the cause of Healthcare Reform. Yet again he raised the benchmark on communication and anyone who watched or listened to our President speak on the need for Healthcare Reform should now be up to speed and possess the ability to ask the right questions. And of course his charisma combined with the optimism that things are actually changing for the best in our country was exhilarating.

His speech was compelling in that it pushed through crucial information and boldly challenged the work of fear mongers. The art of communication is of utmost importance during times of change whether discussing war time, changing fiscal matters, or–finally–21st Century Reformation.

Regardless of the duel between the two major political parties both play a role in shaping our future. To those of us who are progressive in thinking it is easy to associate the Republicans with stagnation and the status quo. However, we have also seen ways in which Democrats have remained in a business as usual way of political decision making. Both parties it can be said, struggle in some way or another with embracing the future with forward thinking. It is a lot to ask of anyone it is also necessary and this is why exceptional leadership is so crucial at this moment in time.

As I watched Obama’s speech to congress on cnn.com, I also payed close attention to the body language and reactions of his audience. As I am sure most of us notated, it was a lot like watching a sports arena. Were it differed from that perspective is the result of a carefully orated presentation that gave just as much attention to unifying ideas as it did opposing.

This gave the public a chance to see just how at odds congress is over this. I shall remain optimistic, however, not to a fault. That being said I am ever so excited to be a part of an awakening collective conscious. However, watching this program got me to contemplating about that 51% mark where things really start to change. When you think about what the Republican party stands for and when you see it emanating in the form of ‘stubbornly clinging to that oath’ you begin to realize what a challenge it will be to get to that last mile of the 51%.

The Republican party formed in large on an old bitter divide. Not wanting change, not wanting unity–fearing and not knowing what their individual worlds would look like even though their individual wealth and outlook on life was much better than the majority. They owned the land, raw materials, and all aspects of industrialized business–production, transportation, and the fuel to energize it all. And so they as a party have chosen to hold onto old ways of doing government and business, as a way to protect these gains. The Republican Oath emphasizes the importance of the individual being self-reliant with minimal government involvement. It is that sort of individuality that encourages fear and greed because the future appears daunting and speculative. It is a vision that puts the future of a person like me in great jeopardy. Try as I may, I simply cannot afford health insurance. Sure, in 1852 a person’s future relied heavily on their individual actions, however, in the 21st Century, we are a strong and solid nation that is heavily influenced by the global. Today, the economy of China has an impact on our daily life, just as much as America’s own economy. Sure, we can decide to begin producing widgets to earn our individual living, however, take a look at the labels of the goods in your home... “Made in China”? China has the ability to produce widgets much more affordably than I can out of my basement. The individual can’t compete in the same ways anymore.

"We did not come here to fear the future. We came to shape it."–President Obama

The essential services that provide quality of life cost comparatively more than what average income allows (credit cards don’t count as income). Our current system is ill-equipped to handle our new and arising challenges. We should equip ourselves with the latest shaping tools meant for today and tomorrow’s era.

And here we are again, America, at a tremendous crux much like the end of Feudalism. The transition that Traditionalists and Modernists endured, a grueling struggle highlighted by fierce devotion that manifested itself in War, Love, Hate, Music, Political Non-deference, and Spirituality. Having that history so near and dear to us is both a blessing and a curse. It is both encouragement to keep pushing forward, and, I believe, as expressed by Republicans–understanding things as one continuous battle of ideals, and a forced capitulation of these old ideals. Something like insisting on being allowed to continue using a rotary dial phone, in a digital age, simply as a matter of pride, because you invented the rotary phone.

As Obama spoke, the reaction or the staleness from the Republicans reminded me that in our current two-party political system, we remain Republican Vs. Democrats–we remain in an antagonistic relationship, we remain in a dual existence; ideals vs. ideals. In that two-party system then, one could say that the Republicans are slowly loosing the battle (for every 8 years they gain in office, they seem to loose credibility in one or more sectors of good governance). Watching Obama address Congress you could see in the Republicans, now more than ever, have a tight-fisted grip-of-fear on these out-dated ideals. I got the sense that they more than any of us realize that this crux does not stand alone and is the latest of battles that connote the end of an era and the beginning of a new. Arms folded and eyes rolling like marbles, the Republicans seemed annoyed and disinterested whenever Obama pushed the boundaries of his Modernist existence. For the rest of us, when he pushes those boundaries we feel his charisma; that incredible optimism that has you sitting at the edge of your chair. That sense that real change is so close we can finally taste it. The opportunity to be unified and strong.


The subject of Healthcare Reform as an issue of concern has made tremendous progress in grabbing our Nation’s attention (politically and publicly) over the last 15 years. It is an issue that continuously engulfs more and more Americans in an adversarial relationship. It is encouraging to know that issues such as Healthcare Reform have finally reached a pinnacle point; that political leadership (more recently Edward Kennedy, Hillary Clinton, Obama) has succeeded in making a long-time issue–since Roosevelt in 1912the foremost of political concern.

We are in and becoming Global despite any of our political philosophies. The estrangement of outdated modes of operation will make the difference between collapsing in on ourselves destructively or collapsing forward and unified towards the future. Global constitutes Oneness, and in that singularity exists a greater dependence on the whole. This is not a matter of weakness or a show of power over the individual, quite the opposite, it is a matter of strength and global continuity.

Tuesday, January 27, 2009

Changing Gentrification January 2009



One of the dangerous tricks of gentrification is its ability to give you novelty lenses.  Where everything that is surrounding your pristine glass and stone palace is cute, neat, or old school; the Mittman’s Pharmacy on the corner looking very Maude like, or Jeffersonian - Welcome Back Cotter-esque.   Something about it novelized in a museum-like realness, that is until some time passes, and more new stuff comes, and the old begins to look decrepit, like the home of the eccentric neighbor in his post-partum existence.  The changing of the neighborhood cultural mix, the rise of real estate cost, and the opportunity to profit steam roll a conclave flat without the vocal opposition.  You see the novelty, it will eventually wear-off.


We’ve all heard the arguments before, yet our path goes on in reckless abandon; without real socio-economic knowledge of the unintended consequences, without ecological architectural accountability.  So how will this become, once again, a relevant cause - as progenitor of a review of ethics?  One way is to truly engender the rally cry of our newly elected president Barack Obama.  And a good thing too, because as it so goes in metropolis there is a good many of us who did vote democratic, or rather, for democracy.   What does it really mean to engender this idea of change and yes we can, and accountability; our very complicit-ness  is to see that big structures are only a part of our intended focus, that it is indeed individuals too who should act personally, looking inward on their day to day life.  We cannot change what is, because it has already happened, but we can change what will come tomorrow.  What will come tomorrow are more gentrifiers, and homeless individuals, out-priced individuals, and new perspectives will also come tomorrow. 


Making a change will challenge us, yes we can becomes a hard to swallow mantra when not accompanied by millions of others in unison.  Eight months from now, will you still have this refreshed perspective of America’s future, or will you again leave America’s future in the hands of a few men and women, or will you begin change with you, will you live by example, always have your conscious aware of your every action; will you begin to truly consider how every individual actions affects others before you buy, sell, create, and eat?  Will you remember that just because you work in the office or work or patronage the showroom, you wont forget or neglect your fellow human being who work in the factory?  We are all complicit and in numbers we can change things, we can do the unthinkable, we can elect a man of color whose father is of African descent to the presidency of the United States of America; together all things are possible, in numbers we can say enough is enough.  It will take a lot of hard work, not just signing petitions and voting, but also restructuring the system so that we don't collapse on all of our luxurious goods that even the poorest of us seem to scheme with the provider to get it into their possession. Whether we are the seller or buyer, designer or builder, the banker or the secretary we are all complicit. 


When it comes to gentrification we can build eco-wise, stable and balanced communities, we just have to want it instead of being fed it.  We have to want change instead of being told to change.  As important as the role of president is this was merely a small step for our natural desire for change, the president is off in the distance and you can turn off the news, close-out the web page, or toss aside the magazine, but you can not escape yourself.